Cognitive behavioural therapy disabuses you of the notion that your brain is always a wise sage with your best interests at heart. Sometimes, often even, said brain is a deeply committed gossip columnist, with private access to your darkest inner monologue.
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I dreamt of being a psychiatrist but became a lawyer by mistake; I retrained as a psychotherapist and have never looked back.
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